ECLIPSE: Family Violence Services
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Dynamics, Indicators and Impacts of Family Violence
Monday 29th November 10:00am - Wednesday 1st December 12:00pm NZST
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PLEASE NOTE – this training runs over three days between 10.00am am and 12.00pm, please rest assured that your issued ticket will cover all three days of the event and the Zoom link is also recurrent across all three days  Thank you – Team ECLIPSE


ECLIPSE: Family Violence Services Ltd is a specialist family violence training provider, that offers services across Aotearoa, New Zealand. We have a targeted focus on increasing whānau safety and well-being by educating on the dynamics and impacts of Coercive Control and the resulting Invisible Walls© and Whole of Person Entrapment©.

This training aims to increase understanding of family violence dynamics, indicators and impacts.  It is developed for more non-specialist practitioners who work across the social sector and wish to develop their family violence knowledge and response capability. 

All practitioners within the social sector will engage with clients who have experienced family violence in some way.  This is a great opportunity to gain a baseline knowledge and possibly progress to more intensive trainings. 

Facilitator Debbs brings 20 years experience working across the family violence sector, and is also a survivor of family violence, she recognises and presents the interconnected perspective of survivor and practitioner in a professional, healthy and informative manner.



Day One - Monday 29th November 10.00am-12.00pm

  • Debbs story – Breaking Silence documentaries
  • Coercive Control and Pet Abuse – lived examples provided
  • ‘No Holds Barred’ Q & A session
  • Exploring the Dynamics of Family Violence
    • Coercive Control as the overarching control tactic
    • Physical abuse 
    • Sexual abuse 
    • Psychological abuse 
    • Threatening behaviours
    • Financial abuse
    • Using Children as tools
    • Intimidation 
    • Stalking - surveillance
    • Harassment
    • Forced Marriage
  • The Episodic nature of family violence and coercive control – cumulative impact

Day Two - Tuesday 30th November 10.00am-12.00pm

  • The strength of our victims – victims are the experts in their own lives, support self-determination strategies
  • Exploring the Impacts of Family Violence
    • ‘Normal’ responses to long term trauma
      • Female victims
      • Child victims
  • How we view our primary victims and how that impacts on our responsiveness
  • Understanding victim behaviour and responses – reducing judgement and increasing empathy
  • Risk analysis
  • Safety strategising
  • Empathy vs Sympathy – understanding the difference

 Day Three - Wednesday 1st December  10.00am-12.00pm

  • Legalities and impacts of orders
    • Protection Orders
    • Parenting Orders
    • Police Safety Orders
  • Organisational and Systemic Entrapment – how the systemic deficits within our own organisation and our organisations systems can inadvertently re-victimise
  • Working in partnership - what is your role as a social service provider in reporting / information collation
  • How can we utilise our new learnings – mindset change / response tool


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IMPORTANT: Please note that if you have been exposed to family violence or have lived experience this training may trigger memories.  Please consider booking in supervision post training in order to assist in keeping your self care a priority.  Alternatively you can engage the services of EAP.less

PLEASE NOTE – this training runs over three days between 10.00am am and 12.00pm, please rest assured that your issued ticket... more

Participant $65.00 +GST
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Available 23 Oct 2021 - 1 Dec 2021

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